Tuesday, May 25, 2010

once again

oh no!! it seems like just yesterday  that our exams got over,and already v hv the new datesheet in hand..wonder when all this is going to end..or even more importantly..if i m going to last that long! as one of my fren says.."exams hi to hain,kaun-sa kumbh ka mela hai jo 12 yrs baad aata hai.."..so y worry, and btw this time is our final sem and have only 4 papers ! then again..there's the father's of all positive sayings.. "examiner marks hi to katega, gala to nahi!" (the examiner can do only so much as cut marks, not our throats!!) hmm..that's another positive way of looking at exams! hope i can just remember all this when the D-day does arrive!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

optimism ...(continue post 99)


  last time i wrote a post on "OPTIMISM ,REALISM  and PESSIMISM..." and one of my frenz or blog visitor swati suggest me for more explanation so i am writing here more..not sure that this is too much good ..i love when visitors read my post and mail me for expecting more from me for write better ..

Am in search of!!!

Its absolutely situational and short lived. The art of positive thinking they say, and at times the art of consoling n lying to ones own self –that’s what I say.
Ask those optimists, have they tasted the bitter failure, if yes then must have experienced the joy of success as well.

What if u find yourself in dark unending tunnels.
Of course you’ll try to tunnel out of the dark; but how long …there’s a limit to everybody’s patients …………
I’ve been trying though haven’t yet succeeded
But yeah!! The dark has tunneled through me, turning me into a pessimist.

CHANGE- that I’ll never was what I was determined of…
Though outwardly I haven’t yet ; the same old happy-go-lucky natured, confident, strong, ever smiling character for those around me, but I can feel changes cropping inside me.
One, who never believed in luck, destiny, has now stopped believing in hard work ‘cause hard work is rewarded at-times n not always. It’s your fate….how long it takes to journey till you reach that one desired end…
What matters is not talent but luck, what matters is not dedication but the final result.

EXPECTATION-is the root cause of all heartbreaks,
I being an ordinary man can’t stop expecting though.


- A philosophical statement with not an inch of practicality in it.


Being of a technical field, am into the habit of categorizing everything into distinct sections…………so are OPTIMISTS, exactly of 3 kinds-

First are those- born in luxury, riches, for them SUCCESS is a thing to be bought.
Second, being the luckiest ones (in my view), their life has been a perfect balance of bright summers to gloomy autumns to romantic monsoons. It’s they who say-keep faith and you’ll surely get it…everything will someday be fine…

I envy you, your fate my friend…

Third being the liars, sad at heart…. knowing nothing’s going to be fine but still consoling self saying goal is hiding behind the next U-turn.

I won’t lie, and the first two categories isn’t for me…

Pessimism (as you’ve termed me to be) gives me happiness, yes it gives!!!…’Cause it has taught me the way to live life to the fullest in no matter how small the triumph be…

PESIMIST-one who looks to the darker side of everything, every happening, but then the little success that they get gives them eternal bliss…this one hope gives me the inspiration to continue counting the shadows………..there again I’m hoping, expecting………….

Yes, I can’t stop expecting, but I’ve changed …I’ve started expecting the worst ……that’s the reason they call me pessimist…

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post no.100 and a question to myself

The most important things with this post is that i completed 100 posts on my blog  and this is a great achievement for my self . i never thought that i can write ..and people will  read my posts . But from 2008 many peoples support me for writing ..and appreciating me with there ideas and comments . thanx to all of u and i love u alot .

A recurring question??
Why do I write a blog? Why should I waste my time writing, when I am not sure whether nebody will read this? Why, at all?
Is this wastage of Mental Effort? No, not at all.
Reason being......

" A Blog a day,
keeps the psychologist away;
since writing a blog,
clears the smog and does not let your mind clog;
of the ideas that are crazy,
and this makes your day as lovely as a "daisy"!!

Hope this answers the question :-)

Will keep on writing more!!!!!!!

Till next time,
Good Bye
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Saturday, May 8, 2010


"Think positive and be optimistic"...a very oftenly used phrase..isn't it...but then sometimes i ponder upon one thing and that is does being optimistic drags me away from being realistic...or being a little realistic makes me a little pessimistic...because...reacting in certain situation..any hard u try to be optimistic u r bound to be affected by certain factors that force u to think negative and it effects u ...some say this is being realistic..but i have never been able to judge is it realism or is it some sort of pessimism..overcoming the optimism...
I am a very optimistic boy..but when i really want someone who is talking to me to feel positive about things...i get the statement u r not being realistic...ofcourse i dunot want to live away from reality but what i want is whenever i want to think what can happen in a certain situation i want myself to just imagine a positive outcome and that too without ignoring the actual situation or certain real life factors..there drags in a little pessimism..when u cannot simple put away the thought"agar aisa na hua aisa ho gaya tou"..so what is it exactly...pessimism or a little realisation of the things around....well i think i cannot really conclude about it because i am surrounded by all sorts of people so the best way out is judging everything and then making some sort of prediction and trying to make it a positive one...
living in fantasy world is ofcourse not welcomed but then living in a real world and still thinking that whatever happens happens for our own good and just putting in true efforts is what is right that is what i feel....:)


Saturday, May 1, 2010

Hppy Marriage Anniversary to mom dad

Love and marriage
has been a long and difficult road.
Faith has been your carriage,
God has lightened your load.

Together you have progressed
to your 29th year,
with the words of God
whispering in your ear.

Your one life together
has you both united,
but the joys to come
have just been sighted.

I love you both
for being young at heart
and making an oath
never to depart.

You belong
side by side,
your passion strong
with nothing to hide.

God bless you two,
Mom and Dad.
Happy Anniversary!

song of the moment : dil ku mera shor kare ..idhar nahi udhar nahi , teri or chaley